Letting Go. Detaching. Done Engaging.

[ovrrnbw]

Thanks all wish we could grab a bite in real life.

Or a drink?

Did,

I'm just going to encourage you to be consistent, be disciplined, and don't get dragged into convos you aren't ready for.

What's the longest you've gone without talking to her? Going dark (only responding to direct questions, and even then as briefly as possible) and NC (not responding to anything or initiating communications) has helped me tremendously.

Now, I'm not the poster boy for DB'ing, but doing these things has given my W time and space to think she has lost me. She even said that last week. And I don't think your W has had to face that feeling ever before. It might be better for her to feel that, because if you guys really divorce, that's how it's going to be and by the time you finally let her feel that you may be moved on. So if you really love her and you really want to fix this, let her experience this loss and we'll see what she really wants in the end.