Adam,

This is great. She is starting to feel safe around you. She came to you to open up about her feelings, which is what you want. She also acknowledged your changes, also great. You doing great, stay the course.

You need to write down some specific actions from your W that will help guide you.

Mines were: Get my W to have a the M or R talk with me (her being the one to open up that convo)

Have W tell me she loves me

Have W make a family outing including me.

Wife touches me.

Wife tells me aboit daily life.

I used these actions as guide post and goals.

I hope these help.

Onward and forward


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.