Hi Ellie~ Thanks for stopping by my thread yesterday. I am still very much pondering both yours and Wiley's posts.
I am with Sage as when I read your post about the fellow that was one thing BUT I didn't understand the surfing.
Quote: I suppose it would smack of control to ask him to limit their interaction in that way?
Is there a difference between control and boundries? Is saying "ya know, I'm not comfortable with the sports" controling or setting a boundry or are they one in the same and just another way to say the same thing?
You seem to have a good handle on this and sending you my good thoughts too!
