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Sex has been a very touchy subject for w and me

She dropped the D back in January

And like your situation there was a lack of commitment to reconcile

It has been a long multi year marathon

DB coach said to give it time and to be patient

To focus on getting to know each other again

Being friends

Dating

Touching non sexually

This escalated from not wanting to be in the same room

To proximity

To touching like a friend

To hugs

To pecks on the cheek

To holding hands

And then this past week

To open mouthed kisses and sex

I told her back in January that I did not believe in a sexless marriage

But that there was no need to rush things until we were both ready

So she knew what I believed

And then I waited


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving