Sigh. Yah, lots of us can relate, no? Kudos to h for bringing up the violation of the nanny rule.
Any thoughts on next steps? Would you discuss/checkpoint with h more regularly about this? Is there a "need" for her to participate in sports with your h? That's the part I sort of don't get...I suppose it would smack of control to ask him to limit their interaction in that way?
Sending you good vibes and anti-affair-residue-solvent.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.