I am going to decide whether to move out soon. I am considering it and removing the emotions and just listing positive and negative.

Negative

It will hurt both me and my kids because they have always lived with me
I will no longer have a nice big house
Costs will be a little more
I wont see my kids 50% of the time


Positive
I can truly focus on myself without seeing WW all the time.
I will be able to have my kids still.
I wont have to split Bill's with WW.
I will be able to detach much easier.
GAL will be easy every other week when I'm alone
I can fully relax and let my emotions show if I'm alone

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019