Thanks LH. You know what option I would take. I just had to do some venting to let off steam and let out hurt. This forum is very therapeutic. I don't have many I can talk to IRL and I feel my family already knows too much from their own sleuthing. I appreciate the voice of reason you provide.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19