If this is your BD coming then listen, validate (emotions not actions), mirror the tone. Please don't do what the majority of us LBS do. Please don't beg, plead, bargain, attempt to reason. This is a decision based on her emotions right now. If you get emotional and cry then you cry, but try not to turn into a blubbering mess. Appear to come from a point of strength not weakness.
W:"H, Bla bla bla I want a D...Bla bla ba"
STRONG EYE CONTACT: H:"I agree. This is not working for me either. I want us both to be happy and if divorce is THE ONLY WAY for you to be happy. I will not stand in your way."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
