Good for you Nicole, he has the guts to say that you are destroying your D after him practically abandoning her for a few years now? Do not let him inside your home, it’s your place of peace , of happiness and serenity. I feel my entire home is filled with negativity when WH comes here and I am still in the family home. When I get a new place of my home there is no way I am letting him in, I think this is also good for your D because she won’t see any arguments around her anymore. It’s your and your Ds place , what doesn’t serve your well being must be kept away from there