Unfortunately I couldn’t help it today got sucked into an argument with my wife. Totally involved the kids housing finances everything in some ugly words were said just wasn’t good. Don’t know what to do other than that we’ve kind of been getting along OK but everything just blew up I don’t know if it’s just the normal course of things but I guess we were both a little on edge today and neither of us will I didn’t stop.
It just seems that the arguments when they happen are more severe now because everything is so apparent and real and it means real money real time real effort real problems and it doesn’t give any time to have good quality interactions when all of our actions involved what you said finances kids and emotionally negative things that are going on. How do you DB through this win every action that you have is so paramount. Examples would be of course divorce and selling of assets or disposing of assets or moving one thing out of one person’s name or both peoples names into the other separating everything else it’s all encompassing and it’s all weighing on that I feel both of her shoulders and it’s hard to attempt to re-establish any kind of connection or anything through this so how can I improve myself through this an attempt of course the ultimate goal of being a man only a fool would leave but To save my family and begin a new marriage I just don’t know comments help?


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18