Man Target clothes are like the worst. They are shiny and all, but once you wash them they get all jankity. I've always regretted buying clothes at Target. I'm not even being a snob, I just want my stuff to last. Lol
Hey, you know what? Who cares about that others think. You filed for divorce because you deserve more than your H gave you, and he's not willing to change. Maybe one day! But that day is not today, or yesterday, or the past 6 months.
Take charge. Take control. Show the world you're worth more than what you were dealt. Your real friends will know you're doing the right thing for yourself and that's what matters most here. What's good for TJT. You don't have a kid with him, that's an advantage. Your D should be cut and dry. Once it's said and done you'll come out on top. It will be emotional but it's also very freeing.
Seriously, in my thread people told me divorce is just a piece of paper. Well it is. Maybe one day your H will come around like my XW did. But maybe not. And to be honest, I am still trying to figure out if my XW truly had an epiphany and is onthe road to real change that shows her dedication to R2.
Once you get out there and become TJT 2.0 you're going to see how much more you are worth, and you'll realize that you actually were ALWAYS worth more than you got from your H. It's going to work out for the best.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018