Originally Posted by DC421
As she continues to contact the OM and lie about it...I find it hard to stay quiet and let her get away with it. At what point do I say "ENOUGH LIES"? The longer I continue DBing and be patient...the more it feels like I'm letting her get away with whatever she wants. How do I "call the shots" and remain on the DB track?



I like this:
"Stop. We both know you are lying. When you are ready to speak the truth, I will listen." Turn and walk away


If you dig through my quotes thread, start with #3. You will find some very wise posters with great advise.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712