I must say something. I have noticed that when you do your version of backing off from her, typically with in a week you two are quarreling but you never tell to full version of what happened. It's vague. I have noticed that a lot from you.
Did you reach out to her like you have been wanting to and caused a fight? I ask bc you clearly do everything asking for some sort of reaction from her. And when it's a negative reaction or not the one you wanted you get pissed.
Obviously this forum can only read your side of the story. If you are reaching out to her please stop. Just leave her alone. A argument takes two people Did.
