But you know what? You are going to find the right person for you. Don’t go out and find a rebound just because you’re lonely. Honestly, I suggest not dating for a while.
I've thought about this a lot, and people say "Oh, you'll have no problem finding someone else". Well, I don't want someone else right now. I'm finding ME, and I like it. As I sometimes lonely? Yes. Not often, though, because I'm filling up my life with friends and activities I enjoy. But, you can be very lonely living with someone too I realized. And I'm happier being lonely living alone than I was living with H in the state he was in and our M was in.
You don't need to date, but it is good to build your social circle. I have gone and had coffee with a few women. I am in no hurry to start any new romantic relationship and I make that very well known, but it is very nice to meet new and nice people. So far I have met three women that are really nice people. I told every single one of them of my situation and that at this point in time I am just making new friends PERIOD. All of them have accepted that and arent pursuing me in anyway beyond just being friendly and chit chatting. Its nice.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
