Wanted to also write about upcoming GALing since I haven't in a while:

- I think I already mentioned, but I have a girlfriend from out of town coming over later today and we are going to grill out, hang out, and she is going to stay the night in my big hotel of a house, hah. (This is good for me because it gives me purpose and joy to get the house in order and have someone stay to enjoy it!)

- In the 2nd week of Jan. I am going to Mexico with another friend (along with some other friends of hers that I don't necessarily know well) to celebrate her birthday. I am looking forward to it except there's not many swimsuits available in the stores right now and I need to get some new ones for this trip!

I did try a few options from what I could find in Target yesterday, but it didn't go well... I always misjudge the sizing and end up feeling bad when something doesn't fit. But I've learned the difference in how something that's well-made can totally change the whole situation so I'm just blaming it on quality and hope to go somewhere else to find something better before the trip! Hey, just like my H! (more jokes, hah. Didn't even plan that one).


H:39 W:30
M:4 T:9

05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD
07/2018: Discovered A, confronted
09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out
12/2018: I filed
03/2019: Divorce finalized