Dealing with a WW Pt3

[SoTorn]

Yes it makes sense. The last couple of weeks I have been very consistent. I am very distant from her. I have not explained when I will be home etc. If I am home I will eat dinner when she cooks it. I do enjoy her cooking. I dont know if that's a temp check or not. But I always eat when she cooks and I always sit at the table. She sits by me but we dont talk. I always finish first and leave the table first.

WW has invited me to dinner three times. WW did not invite me to ski. But I didnt make it seem like I wanted to go. WW bought tickets to Aquaman for all of us. I did not go. I am working on softening my words. WW didnt seem annoyed when I said I dont want to hang out with her. She just said "ok".

My overall message is that I'm fine without her, I dont want to hang out with her, I dont want to be BFFs with her. I actually feel a lot better emotionally. The one emotion that has been very strong is anger. I have been doing my best to recognize when I am feeling angry and focus on something else besides the anger.

In all honesty WW is losing me. WW is in my room a lot. One thing I have been doing is making a daily goal sheet. I had one where I had committed to flirting with a good looking woman lol.

I fulfilled the goal and checked it off. I put the goal sheet away in a stack of papers I have. I went home yesterday and the sheet was out and on my dresser. WW digs through every little thing I guess.

I have been GAL like a madman. I have had plans almost every day of the week. I'm either at the gym, out with my kids or meeting new people. I have been out, not on dates, but I would say introductions, with several women. I have been asked out several times now. I am just meeting friends. I make that very clear to these women.

I am trying to grow my social circle with both men and women.