your H is doing the same stuff. He's full of lies and doesn't care if he hurts you. I'd just use that to fuel your fire to detach.
I wouldn't believe a word out of his mouth. I wouldn't bother to call him. I'd just go live your life.
As for this quote:
Originally Posted by Jim1234
Now you KNOW there's going to be no reconciliation.
I wouldn't make any assumptions. I'd stop thinking like this altogether, Nicole. The whole "we're getting divorced, we're not getting divorced" back and forth just hurts you. So don't even think about it. Don't think about how things are with OW.
Just let him go.
I think the important thing is you Live your life like there isn't going to be any reconciliation. You never do know, but healing will truly come when you love your life that way.
Absolutely sometime we just need a hug while going through the grieving process. And grieving is healthy. It is a helluva process, but one that is necessary.
I see a very bright future for you and your daughter once you process everything.
