your H is doing the same stuff. He's full of lies and doesn't care if he hurts you. I'd just use that to fuel your fire to detach.
I wouldn't believe a word out of his mouth. I wouldn't bother to call him. I'd just go live your life.
As for this quote:
Originally Posted by Jim1234
Now you KNOW there's going to be no reconciliation.
I wouldn't make any assumptions. I'd stop thinking like this altogether, Nicole. The whole "we're getting divorced, we're not getting divorced" back and forth just hurts you. So don't even think about it. Don't think about how things are with OW.
Just let him go.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.