Just keep swimming, I think I can, I think I can part2

[marina7]

Job,

Thank you, yes with this bd it shook my whole life,
Life is simple now. I realized I only can control my
Emotions and thoughts. And by doing that is staying away from
W.

I won't lie is hard and sometimes I get sad and it hurts but
I come here to vent and you all have help me so much and
how to handle W. Thank you again.

DnJ
Yes I am learning to just listen yes it's hard to hear our
Trios sadness, I was the mom that kiss there scrap, if they
fell I would run and make sure they where ok. Now I can't
Fix the hurt that W has caused them. But I am there emotionally

D10 is so wise for her age. Girls mature so different I see d10
And s9 and s10 they are so different, you know that saying boys
will be boys.

I know my boys hurt but they cope with it differently example
S10 says I hate feelings because feelings make you weak. Me
And s10 had a long talk about feelings he finally broke down and cried
And also said why did W had to ruin everything and everyone life.

I just listen and validated and told him to write it down and to ask
His therapist that question and s10 did.

As I tell the trio's One day at a time.