If you want the kids with you on your day then you should ask her
I can see how all of the above would make your head spin
Particularly the from us on the presents
I do not know if I could have done what you did with her family
But you are you
Take care
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving