I’m doing well, thanks for checking. There hasn’t been a lot going on with me. I had some health issues that turned out not to be too serious, just pain management, so that’s good but I’m usually wiped out by the time I get the kids to bed or before. The kids are doing good in school, they slipped from all this but they are still both doing good. S has some struggles but is doing well overall.
I found out during small talk that the lady I liked has a boyfriend so nothing happening there, but I do still enjoy our conversations and compliments are always nice to hear.
Ex has been good to deal with lately and her anger towards me seems to have faded. She is still with the same bf so nothing there has changed but she has been better to deal with. Just some things of note for those that have followed my story. On our anniversary she called me to tell me she wanted the kids to talk to me about their trip that day. She was also concerned about my health and was researching my symptoms and asking me questions. Ex had a car accident and is okay but it shook her up pretty bad. I think I’ve seen a change in her since then. Thankfully she had a safe car and I kept her full coverage.
Ex went out to eat with us after the kid’s Christmas play and gave me an unexpected hug before leaving and again last week before leaving with the kids for Christmas. I think she was holding back tears before they left. She also looks better most of the time and has gained a little needed weight. I have no expectations or hope (I mean it in a good way) but thought it was worth journaling these things.
