W spent thousands of dollars replenishing furniture in the house. Not from our bank acct so I assume used credit. Her parents came to visit from out of town and she told them of the new things just minutes after saying she's broke and I'm not giving her any money.
She gave them an ultimatum that they accept her new relationship as a package deal or they would not see the children. Then in the next breath said she was unsure the relationship would even work.
W had a blowout with her mom. I went home, picked up mother in law and brought her to my place to talk about things. I showed her financials that prove I'm not hoarding money and comforted her. Then I got her a hotel for the night. There is a family party tomorrow and now not sure if hapit's happening.
Her mom is at the end of her rope. She is worried about the kids. W continues to take them to drop off daycare several times per week. I assume it's to go see OM. It infuriates me because she's not reaching out to me to watch them--just dropping them off. She's not using bank acct to pay for that, so again I assume she's using credit to hide things from me.
She's lost a lot of weight and I hope there's no drugs involved.
My parents have reached out and offered MIL stay with then until trip concludes. We are all at wits' end.
