Its been 4 months since BD for me too from August and currently in IHS. It's tough man, very tough. When a text can trigger someone going NC in a physical separation, we have to deal with it face to face on a daily basis.
[censored] that your W is currently in that mode, but many of our spouses are pretty much like that.
Maximus said in my thread that with IHS separation the one with the weaker character loses. You're strong ST, stronger than her so if you do decide to stay and be the rock/the lighthouse, then you do it and don't worry about what mode she is in or what she says today, tomorrow, or the next day. You can show her if you choose to. Whether or not you do decide to move out, we'll understand and this is about you. You deserve to be happy. I personally feel that if you do move out, you'll bounce back bro. Everyone will readjust, you, your kids, her. Who knows what'll happen, and maybe one day you or your kids will have asked what took you so long to do that, but for now, sit on it and let it stir. You can always be a positive influence no matter where you are at or where you lay your head. Take advantage of the time you are still around her to show her how wonderful you are.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
