Hi Ovrrnbw, I'm trying to get caught up here and I'm really confused by your latest updates! The last I think I wrote on your thread it sounded like you and your wife had reconciled, were in counseling, she had broken up with OM and had moved back in with you and things had been going well, etc... I remember you asking how to win her respect but it sounds like she's since moved out again and she's back with OM but still trying to be with you? It sounds like you're doing the right thing by not putting up with any of her tactics and showing her you're serious. You might even want to go further and let her worry a bit more that you're considering ending the marriage permanently. It sounds like this has been going on long enough and it's great that you're truly ready to show her you're serious this time. I hope everything works out! I hope when it comes down to it she gets cornered and realizes the double life and back-and-forth isn't an option anymore. Good for you!
