Honestly I got a temp check text from WW a couple of weeks ago saying "What do you want me to do? What do you want?". I said "I already explained to you what I wanted and your actions continued to show disrespect. Your actions speak louder than your words, so as of now, your words mean jack"
I think the more seasoned vets can give you some words to provide next time she asks that. I would keep the response as short as responsible. Something to the point of where you address that you don't need or want her to do anything. You are focused on yourself and your kids. She made her bed, she can lie in it.
Originally Posted by SoTorn
I have no expectations that my WW will come back and say she wants to work on us. As of now she is too far gone into the A and her la la fantasy grass is greener land. I honestly feel that it would take me leaving and filing for D to elicit any sort of reaction from her, but at that point it wouldnt be to elicit a reaction, it would be for me to cut ties and move forward.
Good thing you're saying that. Saying it out loud is the first step towards believing and living it. That gets reinforced when you assume that WW is noticing the changes and she shows "signs" but continues her WW ways. That's when you start believing the things you are doing are changing you into AMOAFWL. If WW does not see that, then some other lucky lady will.
Originally Posted by SoTorn
I am getting really comfortable being a "single" man. I look way better than I have in a long time.
Keep up the good work. This is a marathon. Make the changes permanent.
