Well I saw the L today, we are a good fit and I am happy to work with her. ...My goals for this are to get a reasonable custody agreement (50/50 is what I want),
Glad to hear.
Words from my L --> "It is your's to loose" Which means stay squeaky clean. Do not do anything that will help her claims. IE stay sober. If you feel like you need a drink, let me know and I will drink a beer for you. Do not do anything that will get a restraining order.
We had a guy that did not listen to our advise, drove past his house, saw OM car, followed OM and confronted him in a parking lot. Needless to say restraining order was issued....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712