Originally Posted by Bo562
I’ve toyed around with finding a LFMT around me covered by our insurance—just need to reach out and pull the trigger on that. I have Christmas Break to work with that, so I need to take advantage.

Do this. If your insurance covers this form of therapy, at least try. Mine does not cover ANY therapy unless I am actually diagnosed with something like depression. So take what you can get to see what helps most!

Originally Posted by Bo562
It would not be a shock to me at all if PPD is present here. But I can’t rescue her from it.

Forgive me if I've missed this since I haven't read all of your other threads yet - but have you asked her about whether she thinks she has PPD? Do you know if she's done any exploration or counseling specific to that as a potential issue for her?

I don't have kids of my own and while I know PPD is a very real thing, I also don't know how long it could last... but I would venture to say that there is a better chance of recovery with something like that than if it were something less clinical, like MLC. Just my optimism for you here, IF that turns out to be a factor.


H:39 W:30
M:4 T:9

05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD
07/2018: Discovered A, confronted
09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out
12/2018: I filed
03/2019: Divorce finalized