You’re probably right about finding new things to say. Whoops.
I’ve been in IC, but I’m seriously considering finding someone else.
Current IC is a PhD, and though it is a blessing he turned me on to MWD and DB, and the PhD appeals to my cerebral side, I’m not sure right now. I’ve toyed around with finding a LFMT around me covered by our insurance—just need to reach out and pull the trigger on that. I have Christmas Break to work with that, so I need to take advantage.
W has been, but who knows last time she was with hers. I still believe that if she was that upset / angry / depressed, she’d be in front of her IC much much more.
It would not be a shock to me at all if PPD is present here. But I can’t rescue her from it.