Thanks Bo. I'm pretty stuck between wanting to stick mine out until the end of time and blowing it up with all the explosives known to man. I'll head over to check out your thread and learn more about your sitch.
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized