Harvey, I asked that question about W feeling pain before and the vets gave me the best answer. If she is you would be the LAST person she would show it to. Seems like I have meant nothing to my W since she left. I used to wonder how she felt, enough time has passed that I don’t care anymore. You will get there as you get stronger. In your new world how she feels simply does not matter. Unless/until she shows at your door completely ready to do whatever you need to R the MR, you just keep on walking and making your new life. Terribly brutal, but amazingly simple at the same time.
And as you said on my thread, you are not alone in making that new unwanted walk.
Yeah, the unknown is what is hard to take. If I knew she didn't care about me at all, it would be easier to move on. If I knew she did, I might feel better. Or maybe that would make it worse. I don't know. I guess it doesn't matter. Today was better than the last couple of days. Made myself dinner, washed dishes, exercised, played some video games. Just kept busy to keep my mind off my sitch.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Where you that you were having interaction with your XW? Why not just drop the girls off at the driveway and go on your way next time?
Well, I had to bring in the girls' luggage. XW didn't meet me outside. She stayed in the house until I got to the door. Her Mom and other relatives were there. That was awkward. I'm at a loss on what to do. My XW wasn't WW, so I don't think completely ignoring her is the way I want to go. I just live my life, I'm cordial but I don't go out of my way to contact her, and I validate when I can.
