LBS dealing with WW (part 6)

[Joe2017]

She wants to take things even slower than I do to make sure our kids are OK with us dating.

You might need to slow your roll Joe. Remember she has to earn another chance with you.

In the past she cheated on me to get out of our MR.
She tried using cheating to get out of the relationship she had with OM. it didn’t work, because OM is also a cheater, lol.

Big red flag. When things are good she'll be fine. What happens when inevitably things get rocky again down the road?


Is she in IC? If it was me that would be a must prior to recon.

Yeah, what I meant about her taking it slower than me sounds worse than it is. I'm going at a turtle pace and she is more like a snail. If that makes sense. I'm not rushing this by any means.

Yeah I know it's a huge red flag. She is going to be getting C. I also have limited belief that C does anything for cheaters. When she had her A with OM during our MR, it was right at the very end and she didn’t really do it to force me out. HOWEVER, during her time with OM, she found out he was cheating so she went out and cheated to get back at him. And he didn’t give damn about it. Those are the details around the cheating. If that makes any difference? I dunno that it does.