ARGHHH!!!! Just had a little tiff with my H, over something silly. I know what the problem is - he's sinking back into his depression - I told him a couple of weeks ago that I thought he needed to try upping his antidepressant dose. He's on a tiny dose (half of a normal starting dose) so he has plenty of room to increase it, but he hasn't done anything about it. Frankly, with dealing with my D's eating disorder, it's hard to pay complete attention to my H's depression at the same time. But he's been getting more irritable, fussing more about work, and starting to push everyone around him into projects that really aren't urgent, just so he can feel better. And I KNOW it's his depression, and he doesn't have control over it, and I AM sympathetic - but DANG am I tired of being the one who has it together all the time!!!!! When do I get to have MY breakdown, I wonder???