The family has seen it for some time now. Her parents (divorced but friends) are visiting and want to see me, much to the W disappointment. She put up a fight but they told her they would see who they want. They have also expressed their thoughts to her regarding the situation and are not supportive. I love them dearly.

I have to say it's a catch 22 for me. To look at someone who has done what she has done to me makes it easy to be crude and angry in return. Being nice is hard but i see the benefit for me, not only for this but for my life in general. It's harder in terms of thinking niceness will make her think I approve of everything, which I don't.