Thank you, job, DnJ, and peace. I did exactly as you recommended and overall I think it went really well. I even brought it up saying we should talk now about the decree. I choked up for a few sentences when talking about what her relationship would be with my kids from previous marriage. It was just super hard for me, but after that I plugged along fine. She showed zero emotion and basically said it is not a concern because she did not see them anyway too often, which was hurtful. After we were done she seemed a bit more relaxed and started engaging with me more. She actually agreed with most of my concerns and need for flexibility. Guess she wants this just to end soonest. She said she regretted what she said about saying we could not nest and said she would let her sibling know I could move things out with no issue. I think she thought I would be much more argumentative but honestly the hardest thing I struggled was figuring out if I could manage both custody schedules. Only time will tell.
