I'm started to come to grips with the fact that my wife just isn't able to give me what I need to be happy, and I'm no longer willing to settle for the crumbs she's able to spare. I'm not interested in spending the rest of my life with someone that finds it necessary to keep so much if themselves and their emotions a secret.
This really hit home for me. Although I haven't given up totally on my H, I've realized that I don't want to settle either. I've come so far in my self-awareness, and he remains stuck. I want to remain strong and not settle - with H or anyone. We all deserve better than to settle.
