Maika you have been such great support to so many of us here. Like you say the year of BD and time following that is something most of us will never forget as long as we live. Most of our spouses cut and ran instead of standing up for family and values. At least our burden is not as great as theirs to carry. What happens to you maybe fate but what we make of it is our destiny. You can proudly say you have truly changed for the better, stood your grounds and behaved based on your value system and are a great father for your kids. Lots of love to you and the kids, happy holidays and merry Christmas
