Job, thank you so much for your response. It really puts a different perspective on how I’m viewing this whole situation. I know she is in crisis, and it’s hard for me to see her this way. Not because I want to get back with her, but because I care about her as a person. I know she is suffering and I feel bad because there is nothing I can do to help her. I know that it isn’t my fault or my problem and that is why NC is the best option for both of us. I hope that she can grow out of this and be happy, with or without me in her life. But that is out of my control.
Again I really appreciate you putting this into perspective for me. It helps me to not feel so guilty as she has made me feel that it’s all my fault. I am going to take your advice and concentrate on me and my life.
