Hey Bo,

Merry Christmas!!!

Nice, Keep GAL.

Use your judgement on the communication. Sometimes its best if we keep quiet, other times we can validate which is just listening, its not fixing, dismissing, or agreeing. Other times it's okay to push back on disrespect. In speaking with my WW, I have to look at what angle she is coming from.

If your W is coming to you wanting to talk about how she feels, validate, listen. If she is trying to argue with you, you can ignore or reverse it, not be a part of it.


H 49 , W 47
T 23, M 17
S11, S5
BD: 7/18
IHS: 7/18 - 3/19
Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19
Piecing: 4/19 - Current

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