I don't mean to claim any great success rate. I joined a couple of sites which I had been perusing for a while but which I had never gotten around to paying for, and sent out over a dozen messages. Two dates came from match, one from bumble, and another from tinder. I am also talking to girls on hinge (which seems really good) and ok Cupid. It was a bit of a blitz offensive to see what popped up. That said, I am very comfortable putting myself out there and opening myself up to rejection. It's easy to have zero expectations in these situations!!
On a separate note, I just received a text from W wishing me a happy Christmas. My mother saw the message and pretended to write "F#ck off" on my phone.... Gotta love mama bears!
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019