My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 5

[SoTorn]

Ovr, I don’t know what the difference between going dark versus NC is, either one u pick, the point is to give yourself some space from her. I only respond back about kids or about finances, even the simplest thing about kids I respond back because that is important to me. You have no kids so it will be only about important financial topics or an emergency. Her car not starting up is not an emergency but if it ran over the cliff it is, you know what I mean. And what’s the point of few weeks , what are you expecting in few weeks? This should be the status quo until the sitch changes enough to re-evaluate

I was saying a few weeks of straight not responding to a call or text even if it was about finances. Our finances are fine, she is just crabbing to get me to give her more money right now.

There's a chance my W will be home a night or two this week. I'm thinking about taking an air mattress and spending the night somewhere else if she is home. I just don't want to see her.

Today she texts a Timehop screenshot from 2 years ago of a dinner I made. Then a couple hours later "Over...." then another hour later she says "Sorry, having a hard time."

No response from me. I've been at home by myself for a while now and you ran off to OM's parent's house again. This loser lives at his parent's house.

I'm still super pumped for the new job and money and freedom and am so ready to hit it hard come March.

My WW was texting me quite a bit, and I stopped responding to her completely because none of it was urgent about kids or finances. I got a sad "I never know when you will be home, you never respond to my texts anymore" from her the other day.

I just smiled, went to my room, showered and left again without saying another word to her. I am sure that my WW thinks I am just trying to be mean or something, thats how she acts about it anyway. I am not trying to be mean, I am just not available to her like I was before.