Keep your head up. I am also another on IHS. My WW lives in the room above me. My WW is not remorseful and wants D. I have accepted that. I have also accepted that I deserve so much more and so much better than what WW can provide me.

It hurt badly and I still get the waves of sadness, anger etc. But I am GAL like a mad man and that helps so much. I will be the lighthouse, steady in the rocks and my light, for the moment, is shining on the path for my WW to see, if she wants to change her ways and work on us, but that light will not shine on forever.

I expect my WW to file for D after the holidays. Again I accept that. I am enjoying my life and my relationship with my kids. I know that there are plenty of women in this world that would find high value in a loyal, hard working man with a good career that has a high sense of morals, values and acts with integrity.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019