The schedule of which parent has D4 on upcoming holidays/events should be made out in advance. The immediate goal is to cut out so much contact with your W.
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I don’t have plans for New Years maybe I’ll see if I can make any or just have D4 and enjoy the time with her.
If there was a shared calendar with the prearranged schedule, it would take a lot of guess work out of the picture.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
