My WW pulled the same. I hired a PI and caught her out of town with her boss. One of the things my WW said was "I can't trust you anymore because you hired a PI and had me followed". Some of the sh*t that comes out of their mouths is just so ridiculous. Yeah, I am the untrustworthy one for catching you WW, not you for betraying your vows, family, H and kids!!
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019