I stole away from both work and school some months ago to take in "Love Actually" -- it was a matinee, I had a big tub of popcorn and a giant drink
I loved the movie but, of course, found the scene you referred to extremely painful...you could say that watching the movie "I laughed and I cried". It was actually kind of cathartic for me to literally bawl my eyes out in the theater!
I just got the DVD in the mail yesterday.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.