Question for the pros: I haven't reached out to my in-laws or my wife since the D. Thought about it, but at this point, I think I just need to put my focus elsewhere. Really, I don't think there is anything else to be said. She knows where I stood and that I was against the D, so in my mind, reaching out just makes me look weak. I have chosen to forgive her, and as much as I want her to know this, knowing in my heart that I have extended forgiveness her way should be enough.
It doesn't matter squat how you look to others. What matters is if you like the man you see in the mirror. If you have had a good relationship with them then fine, but blood is thicker than water and time fades all things.
You are probably best off looking forward than back.
Oh and none of us are pros. We make this crap up as we go along.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
