Her behaviour is all about her and her wants (needs). She will not, and can not, show any remorse or concern for you and a lot of time the children as well - MLCers really just can’t. They are so far gone at this time, and so wrapped up in their own selfish emotions, their own pain, there is a huge defensive protection mechanism she is using to hide within.
Do what you need to do. Be the very best actor you can be. Do not let how much it is getting to you show in front of her. Leave whtatever bait she is putting out, right there, and untouched.
Deal with this as a businesss meeting, you have some very specific things you need to accomplish (apartment, getting you stuff, and so on), stay on course.
You can do this.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
