Letting Go. Detaching. Done Engaging.

[Did]

Thanks ginger and Sandi. Now she doesn’t want the dam shirt.

Shared calendar is a good idea.

Working on detaching caring less. Going dim / dark. Moving on. All while still wanting a new relationship with her. Knowing she’s got her own issues to work on and I can’t do anything for her.

She asked who has D4 for New Years. Mentioned she definitely doesn’t have anything to do. I guess telling me there is no OM at this point. Not that it really matters. Of course I want to do something together. But only if we were working on things which we aren’t.

She has D4 for Christmas I guess I should have her for New Years. Or should I gal and be too busy / unavailable.

Overall advice greatly appreciated.