So she’s been blowing up my phone with bug long texts about how she’s sorry, but I did this or I did that and that’s what led her down this road.
She is not sorry. How do I know? B/c WW's don't want to take responsibility for their sh't. She wants to blame her H.
Look, I don't think you need to be sharing some type of couple's counseling right now. If the counselor is having you discuss boundaries, etc., in her presence......I just don't think it's as effective, not to mention it kind of gives her a one up on what to expect. It's okay if you want individual counseling, but I think you need to stop attending sessions together for now.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
