sorry
from my experience with MLC I would say-
they have no concern for us or the kids
nothing they do to the LBS surprises me

remember it is not about u
this is a common thread among MLCers
they are self absorbed lacking empathy for the LBS /and the kids

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow