Thank you, job. I agreed to discuss and try to work out our positions because 1) she is supposed to come today and I cannot let this happen to my kids and 2) my property is at her siblings house. He was letting me stay there when wife and I were not nesting. He is threatening to remove my items and leave them outside his property exposed to theft and the elements unless I responded to her. My hands are tied. I found an apartment today and will move my stuff out when I get back. I cannot be blackmailed. I will play nice until I get back. She did nothing after she filed and is now demanding this to be closed out after sending me a final decree just two weeks ago that I just went over with my attorney this week because I was out of town. This is bullying and blackmail in its purest form.